anaconda - nicki minaj
"being interested in pop culture makes you vapid and unintelligent"
translation: im a miserable pissbaby. im deep because i smoke cheap cigarettes and take my coffee black. have u ever heard of friedrich nietzsche. im so alone.
"My friends call me Meg. At least they would if I had any."
i just wanna live in iceland with 50 dogs and maybe a cat, away from everyone else
this is from spy kids
No out of line at all, you’re completely correct thank you
ive been seeing so many articles saying that suicide isnt selfish and that it isnt all bad really. BULLSHIT.
loosing someone to suicide is worse then loosing someone to an accident, or cancer or even old age. that person willingly choose to leave this world. suicide is one of the most selfish things anyone can ever do. you are destroying the lives of everyone who cares about you and who loves you.
ive lost someone to suicide once and i’ll openly admit they wernt even that super close of a friend. we hung out now and then and had a good amount of classes together, i even helped them find a job. then over night she decided to end her life. after i heard the news all i could think about was what a shitty person i must be to not even notice how much pain she must have been in. how could i not see how much she was suffering. why didnt she talk to me about it. what was so awful that made her give up. was there something i could have done? that guilt still eats me up inside years later and i wasnt even that close to her. her parents got devorced, her sister started abusing drugs and apparently attempted to overdose on pain killers. her selfish act destroyed her family. the ones who cared about her and loved her.
"suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem." a quote from a good friend who talked me through tough nights where i thought about ending it all.
suicide is NEVER an option and it IS selfish.
"i made my friend’s suicide all about me and my faults which makes THEM the selfish one" - blackbanshee, the girl who also told woc/trans women to "get over it" and realize it "wasn’t about them"
as someone who lost my best friend to suicide and did not make it all about me like some sort of narcissistic dickwipe, fuck the everloving hell off if you subscribe to “suicide is selfish” dialogue.
suicide is preventable, and every single person in this world deserves people who care and who work to help prevent them from hurting or killing themselves. but not because those people who help want to keep the subject in their lives - that’s a unhealthy, selfish attitude. it should be because those people care about the subject and what them to live their life for their own sake.
following from that, posthumously judging someone who comitted suicide is possibly the most selfish thing you could ever do, and judging someone who attempts suicide is very close to just as selfish. you don’t own their life. they own their life. them hurting themselves is orders of magnitude more serious than that action indirectly hurting you. help them, don’t judge them. and if you can’t help them without judging them, replace yourself with someone who can, because your help isn’t help at all.
Then and now
ferguson rly teaches a lesson in the lengths police will go to protect each other and white supremacy. they’d rather do all this than arrest one man.
because he is a cop, and he’s white.
they ‘have each other’s backs’ so doggedly and determinedly that they would sacrifice a town of black people for one white cop
i’m thankful for hot middle aged actresses, tv shows and tumblr
i am so offended yall thought i was lying